Does race matters when it comes to dating?
Often times guys would ask me if ethnicity matters when it comes to dating … you know, because the guy is black/brown/yellow/red whatever and he wants to know if he can get certain woman outside of his ethnicity. So does ethnicity matter when it comes to dating? The answer is no.
When you display universal traits that are desirable, women will gravitate to you – regardless of race and physical looks to a certain extend. The attraction is hard-wired into her brain (biologically speaking) so she doesn’t have a choice. She is guided by her “emotion”.
This is where all the theory of alpha male comes into play (if you don’t know, the alpha male in the animal kingdom is the leader of the herd, often mating with all the females and spreading his “superior” genes on). Being charismatic, dominate, center of social circles and sub-communicating sexually is often enough to get most average woman (in terms of looks).
Sure, some women will discriminate certain guys and won’t date them regardless (this is from their social conditioning or just bad past experiences), but from personal experience, most women from all ethnicities are open minded and will date you. This is especially true if you live in the West like America and Canada.
Some guys think its impossible or 1 in 1000 because they have limited beliefs on what they can and cannot do. If you suffer from such limitation, I suggest you go out there and specifically meet woman outside of your ethnicity and go develop a romantic relationship with them. Only from personal experience that you can break that limitation that was build from your mind.
You’ll experience some road blocks ahead … like other men (and women!) snickering at your attempt at picking up chicks at the bar/club, or even places like university campus or mall. Or the woman you’re trying to court just snubs you outright. Control your emotion, Keep gaming and focus, don’t let the insult get under your skin, because its all fun and game.
I’ve seen all types of interracial relationships. Love transcend superficial things such as skin color. So don’t let this hold back your love life! Go out there and meet new people!
